I don't understand spanish well, so I would have preferred that Oscar wrote me in english.
I still don't understand why simply he did not wrote me something like "I'm sorry, I cannot send your cards now, please be patient, I will send you in xx days." We are both adults and the things could be solved clearly.
What I cannot accept is that Oscar had the time and possibility to come in this forum but did not found ten minutes to go to post office and send the cards, or simply to apologize for the delay. I don't know him as well as he doesn't know me, but... here is the difference: I sent him my cards at once (by registered mail), he not only didn't trust me and waited to receive mine without advicing, but after this he continued to lie telling that he was going to send them. After two months, and seeing that he is avoiding any communication with me I think I have the right to believe that he would stole my cards. Think also that, after two weeks of emails unanswered, I thought "Maybe he is not receiving my emails" and registered to his forum with the intention of messaging him, but he BANNED me as soon as he saw my name, before leaving me any possibility to contact him. I also tried to contact him on msn, but he refused. What else should I have to do?
For your knownledge, here are our email communication (please note the dates):
29/09/2008 Hi friend ... I'm a big phone card dealer in Costa Rica... are you need phone cards to sell in Europe?? I have big quantity ane Will may make a good offer for you, Chip Phone cards, Prepaid Phone Cards... good quantity and quality
Greetings
Oscar Blanco
29/09/2008 Hello,
as I'm going to sell my stock, I'm no interested at present in buying more cards. However, if you are interested, I coul swap a quantity of cards, with benefits both for your and my stock.
Just let me know if you like the proposal.
Regards,
Andrea
29/09/2008 Its posible exchange, how many phone cards you like to exchange? Chip? Prepaid?... I`m a tematic Collector and like material to my collection about my tematics... 100,200, 500, 1000 phone cards no have problem... I have more than 100,000 in stock
Regards Oscar
29/09/2008 Well, I don't need many cards. I think that a swap of 100x100 could be ok for now. I can use any pictorial phonecard (chip, remote...). I need 3 copies each and they must be in very good used conditions (no bents, scratches, fading, etc.). I will send in return the same number of pictorial cards, all different, from several countries, including South Africa, Qatar, Finland, Cayman, Bulgaria, Greece, and many more.
Just let me know what do you think about.
Regards,
Andrea
29/09/2008 Ok I go to prepare 100 Phone Cards in good condition, and send in next days... 3 X 33 Please My tematics is...
.....(cut)......
And Others more
Thanks!!!
01/10/2008 Hello,
I prepared a selection of 100 worldwide pictorial cards all different, and will send them tomorrow. Please send yours to:
....(cut).....
Thanks for the swap, if both of us will be satisfied we'll do more in future.
Sincerely,
Andrea
01/10/2008 Good Friend!!!! I go to send my pack the next Friday... Thanks for your friendship and I hope continue our swap material
Good Bles you Oscar
21/10/2008 Hello,
did you receive my cards? I haven't received yours yet, please let me know when you sent them.
Regards,
Andrea
23/10/2008 Yes friend I have your cards... I go to finish your pack this week end and send next monday... Thanks
23/10/2008 Let me say I'm quite surprised and disappointed! Do you know what correctness means? On Wednesday, October 1st (23 days ago!!) you told: "I go to send my pack the next Friday". I think that you should know well that when a swap is agreed, both swappers should send their cards at the same time. This is a sign that you didn't trust me and would have receive my cards for first WITHOUT ADVISING, and this is unacceptable! I have been dealing and swapping for 18 years, but rarely I found someone uncorrect like you. I'm sorry to say this, but send me my cards ASAP, and let's close the deal.
Regards.
23/10/2008 Sorry Friend I have 20 years swapping and this days have a serius problems in my house, I almost lost my house but it's not your problem... my country have very hard rain for 15 days... send the the pack in next days... sorry again...
10/11/2008 Oscar, over 5 weeks are gone and I'm still waiting for your cards. I'm really tired of your false promises, so please be adviced that if I don't receive them within a week, I will start to publish your name and address on every blacklist, forum and collector places in the internet.
Regards,
Andrea
22/11/2008 Other 12 days are gone, and you even did not answer to my last email. If I could have even the smallest doubt, now I'm really sure that you are only a THIEF. You are the shame of collecting world. Today I will start to publish everywhere this story, including your full name, address and email. Everyone in the collecting world must know what kind of CHEATER and THIEF you are.
(please note that I waited 3 more days after this email, hoping in an answer, and only then I began to write the story in forum)
======================================================
I'm sorry to bother you with all this, but I'm really curious to know what do you think about. I understand that we are from different countries, and that Oscar could be your friend, while I am a stranger. However, please try to be objective: if you were me, what would you have think after a month without any answer and any communication (and two months from our first contact)?
Edit: I would also point out that it was mr. Blanco to contact me offering me to buy cards from him... and if he has a lot of ebay feedbacks, well, I have 1315 registered users in my site Phonecards Auctions (www.all-cards.net/auctions), and everybody can confirm that I never failed a deal. Just to say...